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The second leg of our journey involved a super bumpy eight-hour bus ride that took us straight to Pokhara; the City of Lakes. Aptly known as the tourism capital of Nepal, Pokhara is a destination for many avid adventurers seeking to brave the Annapurna Circuit. Though we wouldn’t get to do that, the scenic drive there already promised some magnificent vistas!
Excited at the prospect of staying with a host family, we made our way to the household where we were greeted by a family of three; Sita, Durga and their son Prawesh. Having never experienced anything like that before, it felt quite weird – as if we were invading their privacy and territory; their really, really nice and exorbitant territory. With fresh namaste’s and sindoors, we were made to feel at home right away, albeit one of us unintentionally rubbing off the vermillion didn’t really give that impression. My god was that hilarious. Of course such a show of disrespect would come from one of the most respectful people on the face of the planet – by mistake… (I’ll never let him live that one down!)
After a failed attempt at fixing his forehead, we unloaded our luggage in our rooms and, still sweaty, stinky and fully unpresentable, made our way to the kitchen where we’d have some much-needed dinner. We sat down on the floor by a low-lying table and waited for the food to be served, as the most heavenly aroma wafted tantalisingly into our nostrils. In front of us, Sita; our host mother laid the most gorgeously arranged dish of dal. Famished, we all started digging in before she joined us. Eventually, she did sit down and much to our surprise and slight apprehension, she downed the whole dish fist by fist; as is customary in their culture. All I could think of was how convenient that would be once you get to do the dishes. Still can’t get over having potatoes under your fingernails though.
Over the week we stayed there, we got to learn much about these traditions and customs. Potato nails were now a norm, as was tolerating the insanely hot and humid climate of Pokhara without so much as a fan to keep us from boiling away.
I can’t complain though – especially when it comes to the host family’s hospitality. They made us feel like part of the family from day one, indulging us to our hearts’ content (Especially when it comes to food), and answering all the questions we threw their way. Of all the things we discussed, I have to admit that the most peculiar was the caste system – one devised to separate Hindu people into different functional classes called varnas:
Whilst the purpose of this was to bring order to the community, define every person’s role and ease marriage arrangements, it inevitably led to the marginalisation of a large number of the population. Luckily (according to most), this is being phased out.
Our host family is part of the high caste Brahmans – something they’re not quite proud of. That said, they do try to use their status for good. In fact, they are actively involved in their community and the Rotary Club, providing help and assistance to those requiring it in Pokhara.
Throughout our stay, Prawesh hung out with us, showed us around and revealed all kinds of insider tips as to how to make the most out of our time in Pokhara. While we couldn’t trek on the Annapurna mountain range, we could admire its beauty from its reflection in Phewa lake’s crystalline water. The green water, white peaks and the blue sky, the colourful wooden boats, the pagoda at the centre of the lake; such an incredible sight to behold…
From paragliding in Sarangkot over rice fields and a swamp to exploring bat-infested caves with a hole the size of a chicken nugget as the only way out, from hiking all the way up to the white Shanti Stupa to visiting the Tibetan Monastery of Pema Ts’al Sakya, I’d say we did make the most of our time there.
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